Happy Mother’s Day to all the incredible mothers reading this today and those who have acted like a mother to siblings, nieces and nephews, cousins, etc. I want to talk to you about something most women struggle with even those who mother was not in their life. It a myth that many mothers and women believe about themselves.

Myth 1: I must be perfect.

Motherhood (wives and women in general) often comes with the pressure to be perfect. This can be an exhausting, never-ending struggle that often overwhelms. Yet, the Bible does not call us to be perfect, much less in motherhood. Instead, the Bible teaches us about God’s grace and strength in imperfection (2 Corinthians 12:9).) Moms, your imperfections are not failures; they are opportunities for God’s strength to shine in your family.

Myth 2: I must do it all on my own.

Far too often being “supermom” is what’s expected. Everyone wants to be a mother who can juggle everything in life without any help from anyone. Instead, the Bible teaches us about the importance of community, family, and mutually supporting each other (Gal. 6:2). Being a mother who does it all by herself was never God’s plan. Reach out, share your struggles, and let others help you.

Myth 3: My child’s behavior is my report card.

              Most mothers feel severely judged based on the behavior of their family, especially their kids. We are not meant to guarantee or force perfect behavior but simply train them up while you can (Prov. 22:6). This is not an absolute promise but a challenge to instill Christian values while we can and trusting them to make good choices later in adulthood.

Myth 4: If I’m not busy, I’m not doing enough.

Mothers today believe the lie that being a good mother means giving your kids everything they want and constantly staying busy taking them to every activity. Yet, God teaches us by his own example that rest is necessary (Gen. 2:2-3). Rest is necessary for your mental and physical health. Take time for yourself. If you are running on empty, you have nothing left for what’s most important: your faith and family.

Myth 5: I’m just a mom.

              There is nothing more important and difficult than being a mother. Never accept the idea that you’re “just a mom.” It is a divine role handpicked by God for the betterment of the home and church. Without you, this world wouldn’t exist or be as wonderful as it is. Your work is not a secondary role. Its value is immense. That’s why God gave it to women.

This Mother’s Day, embrace the freedom Christ offers from unrealistic expectations and celebrate the unique role you play in God’s grand design. Remember, you are doing a wonderful job — not because of everything you do, but because of who you are in Him.